Bad behavior in children comes in a variety of packages. Although it can be difficult to deal with unruly behavior , avoiding addressing it can be lead to escalating problems. A firm, unwavering approach  is needed to correct bad behavior in children. Once corrected, it’s important to provide positive reinforcements to ensure the desired behavioral changes become permanent, the following are suggested:

1. Assess the development age and personality of each child. This helps tailor your approach to fit the  needs of the situation. For instance, there are rules you expect a teenager to keep in mind that a toddler won’t  yet  understand. Treat children as the individuals they are; even children within the same developmental age group react to corrective measures differently.

2. Define good and bad behavior using age-appropriate language. Talk with children about what is expected of them in both public and private situations. Provide examples of their past unacceptable behavior along with reasonable is possible and that you are confident in their ability to behave responsibly.

3. Set a consistent positive example for children to follow. Children soak up information from their surroundings and can sometimes develop bad behavior because of “mimicking”. Hold yourself to a high standard when children are in your presence. Avoid  using bad language and treating others with disrespect. Know that children follow your example whether or not you ask them to.

4. Restrict privileges for bad behavior while rewarding good allow children to see the consequences  of their actions. Grounding older children and putting younger children in “time-outs” is another way to express disappointment in their behavior.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    

     Rewarding positive behavior also reinforces the messages that being good is the  right thing to do. Ensure that your behaviors, keep children encouraged by letting them know when they make progress. Consider setting up a chart system to track behavioral improvements and slip-ups.

By: Written by Sharon P. Campos / Teacher I / Alangan Elementary School