Every person has their own unique personality and it is compare to the fruits with different flavors. Some have their good and bad side, but the personality of the person depends on the situation that they encounter or depending on how you or we treat them. We can see the good heart of one’s person if we welcome them with all of our heart and if we can talk to them personally, know their background and history so that we can eventually understand on how they react to the different situation and we easily recognize their personality or attitude base on their actions. We knew that Understanding is the key to people’s hearts, because the most valuable thing in life is having a good relationship with other, life cannot be real if relationship is not real the best thing we can give to other is a true friendship or being real, because true relationship is the source of the greatest joy, the quality of our life depends much on the quality of our relationship with people around us.
We compare people to the taste of durian. Just like a durian we cannot see the true flavors of a person by looking on its outside appearance. Durian has a bad odor, but once you taste it again and again, it gives a unique and delicious taste, just like a person, every individual has their own behavior or personality. The behavior of one person depends on their past experiences, their attitude or behavior characterized their personality or their true flavors. If we deal with people, deal with them with your entire heart, we have to feel the persons heart in order to properly sense the person’s flavors.
Sometimes we doesn’t like others once we saw them, because of the wrong impression it affects the feelings toward other it give us a reason to hate people. But once we knew the person personally, if we create a good conversation with them, a bad feeling will turn into a good one. Having a good relationship with other is a wonderful feeling and experiences in life. Understanding the different flavors of other is a satisfying thing in life.
By helping other people become happy, we too become happy. How can those suffering in the depths of hell, which have lost the will to live, get back on their feet? Merely thinking about our own problems often causes us to fall even deeper into despair. But, by offering a hand to someone who is also suffering, we ourselves regain the will to live Everyone needs a good relationship with other, having good communication is a way of achieving great relation to people, we learn and grows with the help of others but if we do not understand other people in the way they spoke or they act it will hard for us to understand them. That’s why we need a relationship in which communication is honest, smooth having sincerity, openness, understanding, caring and patience if we have this characteristic I think it will surely work. We have to understand that we are all human beings and each of us have their own imperfection, that’s why we need to listen, communicate well, have an open heart to understand one another.
By: Aizel S. Medina
