The communication between parents and teachers creates a partnership in which everyone is working toward the same goal of helping the child achieve success. This also eliminates negativity, such as feelings of being left out of the process and helplessness in the face of problems. Here are guidelines for improving communication.

            For parents, listen to the teacher’s presentation and set up an appointment to meet at a more convenient time if you have any specific questions or concerns. Sign up to volunteer in the classroom or at the school, if your personal schedule permits. More so, give the teacher your contact numbers. Dissemination of information regarding school activities and your child’s progress is just a text away nowadays.

            Another is, stop by to pick up your child occasionally and chat with the teacher briefly. Keep it short and positive. Let the teacher know you appreciate the hard work she does with students. Don’t bring up problems at these short encounters. Bring problems to the teacher’s attention in a positive manner, not by pointing fingers and trying to find someone to blame if your child is having difficulties. Always go to the teacher first, not a principal or administrator, and schedule the meeting with the teacher in advance.

Finally, join the parent/teacher/student organization at your child’s school and become an active member. Being seen around campus and getting known as a parent who participates in school events will put you in a positive light with all school staff. You must also attend all conferences. This is an appropriate time to voice concerns you may have with your child’s learning or behavior. Let the teacher know you value his input and that you view your relationship as a partnership in raising your child.

 

By: Jonathan P. Tabbun | T-III | Mariveles National High School-Poblacion | Mariveles,Bataan