Wondering why I opened this up? I want to help develop a person with a strong personality in a way that he can help others, too. Here are the things to keep in ind regarding how to avoid losing. But first, what to do we mean by the word “losing”?

Losing is a state of having lost, something we were deprived of defeated of, failed to keep or win. It is a woe and a painful feeling when you made a great effort, a big expectation, and thus you will not succeed. Don’t be so pessimistic.

There are things that happen to us not out own linking. It is said neither much nor less is good. It should be fair. Live with freedom and don’t carry the whole world on your shoulder. As the saying goes, “reality bites, and doesn’t let go”. But you can still do something to improve and refrain from losing. Reinforce yourself to something or to somebody. It is half-full or half-empty, what matters most is how you deal with your life and the problems that go with it.

Sometimes, it is a person’s fault of using vague language and uncertainly in their statements that misleads somebody else. It’s better to say what you want or to go direct to the point. The truth hurts but it will set you free. You don’t have to blame others, just be smart and think critically the difference between vanity and reality.

You might think that it would be better to have nothing so you don’t have to worry about losing any true, don’t you think it is a great loss when there’s nobody who loves you, who listens to you, and nobody to love in return? You don’t have to live alone, being alone is said, empty. It’s better to have somebody on your side and wait for the sunset you know you have your star.

Always think that today is the last of your life, so live it to the fullest, do things by yourself, not controlled by anyone because you’re presents is your finance to your future.

By: SUNSHINE S. SALALILA T-11, Jose C. Payumo Jr. Memorial High School Naparing, Dinalupihan, Bataan