As a Teacher II,I cannot help but notice,different working styles in the work place.But,what should we do if two or more different styles collide?Maybe you can tell yourself “I’m comfortable doing things my own way,and it is so irritating when some fellow teachers in the group want to do our project or task differently.”

            Since all of us live and work with others,the odds are good that we will be involved at work in the school,seminars,trainings,workshop  with persons or other teachers whose style collide with ours.But even  though it’s human to believe that our style is the one that  is right,we have to consider other peoples’ style too,and learn how to make adjustments when two styles clash.To avoid some tension and stress,based from my experience,here are some practical tips:

1.learn to listen to others-even if it is uncomfortable on your part,you may hear something surprising that will make you resolve some issues better.To make sure you hear the message correctly,stop what are you doing and repeat  what you have heard.Pay attention to body language as well as words.

2.Think creatively-Look for a solution somewhere between the minimum and ideal.Be certain that both of you agree with a certain point.

3.Develop a Sense of Humor-Avoid being  too serious or full of tensions.Have a good attitude in dealing with a work partner.Do not be irritable for all you know they intentionally make you upset.

4.Open Communication Lines-As long as you will be talking to someone,there is a chance of resolving possible conflicts.

            Dealing with different working styles of co-teachers is not really that easy.There are times,a teacher collide with one another because of this.To avoid conflicts,one must learn to practice respect for one’s space,opinion,views among others.This is a step ahead to pursue understanding in the workplace.

By: Gemma V. Sale | T-II | MARIVELES NATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL-CABCABEN