PRIORITY.

I am so into thinking lately if everyone is smarter than I do, or if they just know something that I do not. I am having a critical mind set of “having or having not” and “doing or doing not” situation these past days or months should I say maybe because of what is happening inside my mind and outside the door of our house. Or is it just me? Or are you experiencing it also?

I work hard, and if I said hard- it means with my 120% of best even if it would mean OT-TY (over-time-thank-you) and T-H-W (take-home-work). I worked as a Pharmacist Assistant, Branch OIC, and Call Center Agent for the past years. I even worked as a Church Clerk, been the President of the youth but most of all, I am a mom. A working mom, with duties inside the house, preparing meals for the family, setting their clothes, fixing things internally and externally and the like is not an effortless task. However hard and multi-tasking mothers do not fit every situation. For some, the husband’s work schedule permits him to care for his children while the wife works and the other way around. My husband works for the daily expenses while I work for some of the wants and not the needs. The real reason why we have to work is for our son and the future. Considering them as the priority may mean differently to each of us for different ages or the parents and their children. Nobody can replace a mom or a dad.

            For whatever decision you make, it will always be different for every family needs and personalities like, for example, the single parents and a two-parent family. The thing is you have to support one another in making the win-win way, for the children need the love, quality time and home stability.

By: Roselene M. Silva