Having someone to love is a great feeling. You feel the butterflies in your stomach. You get goose bumps whenever you think about them. And most of all you are inspired every day. You feel very light like every day is always a sunny day. But, what if that someone doesn’t feel the same way? There you go… that’s the sad part.
So maybe this list will tell if that someone really likes you or maybe just passing by to say hi. Or maybe they just only want someone to talk to. To have a FRIEND in you, again. Yes dear sad, but true. So let’s have the list shall we?
So what went wrong? First, you put your hopes high. It’s just a simple text of good morning. I’m not saying don’t reply but please wait for a while (maybe 10 to 15 minutes is okay to play a little heart to get). Don’t be too easy on them they are walking away because they don’t sense any challenge from you.
Give them a challenge. Second, make them beg.One study said that naturally men are predators. They want to chase their prey. In this case they want their girl to give them a challenge of chasing. So the next time he ask for a date, fake a little pretend that you are not exited. That you may be busy that Saturday night. And when he begs tell him to ask permission to your parents. Then you say yes.
Make your self be interesting. Third, don’t show too much interest. Or they might lost intentions. Remember our second list. Give them a challenge. Show off your talent. If you’re good in singing, the next KTV night own the floor. Show him that you are attracted, and that you are easy to be with.
Love don’t just happen. Fourth, from the first meeting.For the first time you’ve met maybe there’s a spark between the two of you. Second, third and fourth until there’s silence. Don’t push yourself, maybe the spark don’t meant to happened the first one is just an accidentally interest between the two of you.
Lastly, love comes to those who patiently wait. Fifth and the last.Don’t rush love. If it’s for you it will happen. Don’t chase after the one who leave you. They leave because they are looking for something else. And you that doesn’t mean that you’re not more than enough. Believe me you are, maybe the famous line “it’s not you it’s me” happens in real life.
The one that got away will never comeback. But if they will, most likely than not they will leave you again. Because that maybe will happen again. Leaving is the easiest way to escape to our insecurities and unresolved problems if we don’t want to discuss about it.
Love happens in the right time, in the right situation and mostly with the right person. Continue to pray for the love you want to have. Be specific in wishing what you want. If you are praying for a good looking partner or how tall they are specify it.
And lastly let go of the one who hurt and leave you. Because again, coming back to them is an emotional suicide. The one that got away, gone for unknown reason. But maybe, just maybe what they are looking for is their own self.
By: Catherine C. Orizar | Teacher I
